Let’s just dispel this rumor at the start: orchids are tropical plants, watering them with ice cubes is not just counter-intuitive, it’s a sure fire way to shorten your orchid’s life. There’s a reason the marketing of ice cube watering was devised but it isn’t for the sake of growing plants for the long term. Most of the orchids we grow live in tropical areas and are drenched daily with lukewarm water (rain, that is) – and they enjoy high humidity the rest of the day. Not every orchid is the same so tip number 1 (“Know Your Orchid”) should be heeded here, but with any orchid we want to mimic their natural conditions as closely as possible, and ice is simply not part of those conditions for tropical plants. With a good potting mix (bark and perlite in many cases) that allows airflow around the roots watering them liberally with lukewarm water once a week to soak the bark thoroughly, they’ll get the drenching they want and the humidity they crave the rest of the week as the bark dries out, releasing humidity back to the plant. Depending on ambient humidity, your growing space may require watering more or less often - but typical indoor conditions work well with once a week. Pick a day of the week and make that your orchid watering day. And if you miss it, no big deal, just do it the next day for that week. Orchids generally want a wet-dry cycle of some sort - so if they’re staying wait until they’ve dried out. For plants like Phalaenopsis, you should water when the mix has become dry (not BONE dry, but “unmoist”). Stick your finger into the mix to see if it is still moist near the center since the top dries out before the middle. If it’s still wet, don’t water it - if it’s dry then it’s time to water. And if your growing space conditions are consistent you will probably be watering at that same interval down the road (but do the finger test regularly just to be sure).